You’ll know its love , when a man respects you and is thoughtful and Wont touch you , until he places a ring on your hand . wait for a ring , and if its love ? He’d care about you and your heart . weight ? Can be more than lost . if he cared ? He’d be a friend and encourage you and even work along side you helping in your weight loss goal . he’d be a rock . he wouldn’t give up and be a quitter .