The only one who is a loser is the cheating scum who abandoned his entire family including a mentally ill adult who isn’t capable of holding down a job let alone living on their own, for a cheap prostitute home wrecking w**** who has destroyed other marriages too. Not only that, has financially devastated his wife, as well as being willing to have no relationship with his other children and grandchildren since he would rather put some dirty w**** and her stupid child ahead of his own. You are no victim of ANYTHING, and your children will NEVER have anything to do with that b****. Get it????