Women do the same s*** regarding being hippocrites when it comes to gender roles and only conforming to them when it’s convenient for them. It’s either a communication problem, or an a****** problem, not a man or a woman problem. Maybe communicate with your partner so you know what to expect and make sure you are compatible romantically, s*******, intelectually, and spiritually. Or at least 3 out of 4. If you cant do 3 out of 4, it aint gonna last more than 2 years. Wait for the one whos 3 out of 4 minimum, hook up with everyone else.