I am in love with a guy friend who loves me more than I love him, and has proved several times he would do anything for me (including listening to me crying to him about how I slept with his best friend) yet for the past 6 years I haven’t agreed to a relationship with him. But I’ve pulled him back every time it begins to look like he’s getting over me. I keep him as mine but I don’t want to be his… Even when he has a girlfriend he still puts me before them, recently his best friend (the one I had meaningless s** with) warned me in private that he was thinking about me all the time and subsequently wanting to end things with his current girlfriend just because I’d gone for drinks and a chat with him the month before.