I am apansexualmale but my friend thought i was straight and i thought the same of him until i came out to him as pansexual and he came out as pansexual as well. I was happy for him but not long after that, he had confessed to having feelings for me. I honestly didn’t feel the same but I told him to give me a bit of time. Not even a week later, he had a girlfriend. I had developed feelings for him whilst they were dating but tried to hide it from the both of them, not wanting to ruin their relationship. But then one day while me and him were talking on the phone after school he had figured it out. Despite him having a girlfriend, for the next few months he would complain about wanting to date me and wanting to f*** me and dominate me and told me how he would have homosexual fantasies about me. He had convinced me that it was normal for him to be telling me these things and that I didn’t need to tell his girlfriend but I still felt bad even when i believed this. I tried my best to ignore when he said it but he just kept talking about f****** me or dating me or anything like that any time we were together. Then the day before Valentines day he broke up with his girlfriend because he had fallen out of love. I know he still has feelings for me but I don’t feel the same in the slightest and I feel really bad for his ex now. I really want to tell her about what he did but I don’t have any classes with her and I don’t even know the girl. Me and this guy are still “friends” and he still talks about dating me, kissing me and f****** me but I just don’t know what to do to get him to stop and I feel really guilty about it at this point
