I wish my wife would step up her s** game, makes next to no effort whereas for years I keep trying to get better and better and make it more enjoyable for her. The feeling is not reciprocated. It’s at a point where I don’t really want to anymore as it’s too much effort for so little return. Most times I don’t even get off. I’ve never cheated and I really don’t want to as that’s going to be even more effort invested for something that will undoubtedly end terribly. I’ve tried talking to her about it, a thousand times, it goes nowhere. Our relationship is absolutely perfect besides this, suppose you can’t have everything in this world? Good enough to have a companion that will spend time with you? I could’ve just moved in with a friend and just dated different girls and seen more action than this. Marriage destroys the s** life folks, make no mistake about it, it’s why swinging and being open and all that crap has become so trendy this past decade, and the hilarious thing about it is everyone I know who tried that ended up divorced or single if they weren’t married lol. You don’t have to f*** other people, you just have to make more effort with the person you are with, why is that so f****** hard for people to understand?