… and that also goes for stupid s*** like “slave/master role playing”

Seriously that sounds like some of the stupidest s*** I have ever read. If you want something good and real, don’t ever bring s** into it until you’re in an established relationship or are heading in the direction, especially weird s***. Keep that s*** to yourself. Be mature about s***. Composed, confident. Have the confidence to take it or leave it, do without it but most importantly, shut up. Just shut up, Period. Don’t say anything. Become an introvert. Shut. Up. Your market value is obviously in the neqative. Anyone can see that. That’s also repulsive. Nobody wants that.