I’m a 19 year old female, and I have this guy friend whom I’ve known since we were in middle school. He’s been dating the same girl for almost two years now. They have a great relationship, and have even discussed getting married someday. She’s very religious and wholesome, kind of a pretty girl-next-door type. She and I have always gotten along very well.

A couple of months ago, my guy friend and I were talking, and he confessed to me that even though they have a wonderful relationship, their s** life is very lacking. She’s very old-fashioned, as in…nothing k****, and she dislikes performing oral s**. I felt bad for him, and later on in the night I ended up giving him a b******.

This has now become a regular occurrence, usually a couple of times a week, sometimes more. His girlfriend has absolutely no clue that this is going on, and probably never will unless one of us confesses. We aren’t having s**…I just give him head. He says I’m a lot better at it because of my eagerness, and also because I swallow, which his girlfriend would NEVER do. I must admit, I enjoy doing it. I feel like I’m helping my best friend by providing something he enjoys that she’s just not giving him.

And I don’t feel the slightest bit guilty about it. Does that make me a bad person?