To the woman who was groomed and raped in foster care:
**DO NOT** ABANDON YOUR DAUGHTER.
I was abandoned, and my life was hell because of it. You know what you grew up in, and this dickhead has YOUR daughter. Do you remember what nightmare you went through? Keep that in mind when you feel the mental hell creeping up like a shadow on you. You’re probably a lot stronger than you’d ever give yourself credit for. The fact that you had your child shows so. You wanted her, he didn’t. If he’d have EVER really loved you or her, you’d not be going through this right now, and neither would your daughter. It’s not fair to her, he is to blame, not you. There’s no reason to let him just take over your life. There are laws against trash like him. Get help, get yourself together, talk to God most importantly. Don’t leave her. She’ll never get over it.
I never have.
