On top of being an attractive good looking, competent, middle aged man, a good guy but I stand up when I need to, the key to being attractive through it all, there might even be a bit of arrogance, confidence the thing that seals the deal is honesty and integrity in whatever you do. That’s what makes people look at you and know he says what he means, and he will not take your s***… That’s attractive. That’s being a nice guy but at the same time an a******. Wherever it’s appropriate.