I had an affair this year. Recently my ex got back in touch with me. I felt so guilty after cutting things off with him, and it felt so good to make things a little bit right. But now the door has been opened to further contact, and I am desperately worried my boyfriend will find out. But I can’t confess again to my boyfriend- he was so hurt by the affair, and he would never trust me again if he knew I heard from my ex again. I just am afraid my ex will contact me again, and somehow my boyfriend will find out.