My boyfriend(Carmen)’s dad(Greg) got COVID and is likely dying. Carmen said that his dad could barely talk on the phone because of how sick he is. But I don’t feel bad for Greg at all, and I’m slightly glad that he might die. But Carmen is super sad about it and I’m kinda annoyed at it.
Greg is a terrible person. He has done drugs the entirely of Carmen’s childhood and Greg and Maria (his mom) were extremely neglectful, Carmen and his sister were constantly moved between houses, didn’t have bedrooms in most of those houses, constantly had randos coming in and out of their houses doing drugs, had to collect cans on the side of the road to get food, and his dad kidnapped his sister at 14 and had her drive him across the country. Then after Maria died they got taken away from Greg and their grandma took custody of them. So their dad would constantly call Carmen and tell him how much he hates his sister and tell him about his crazy drug induced delusions that he’s a hacker from the FBI. Speaking of hacking, he would hack into Carmens personal stuff all the time. And any time Carmen tries to separate from Greg he will hack into his emails and phone and spam him until he gives him attention. Also, Carmen is banned from PayPal because Greg scammed and hacked people under Carmen’s name. Also Carmen is in the military and when he was going to boot camp Greg tried to f*** up his plane times and location so that he’d miss it, get kicked out of the military, and be forced to have to go back to where Greg lives and take care of him.
And the fact that Carmen is so attached to him scares me. Like I get that it’s his dad but the thought of him affecting our future together and being able to hack into my personal stuff is terrifying. So I kinda think he’d be better off dead for everyone’s sake.