I am 42 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. I have had s** severally, gone a dates (rarely do I get asked out on 2nd dates). I have never been in a relationship that was not s** related. I don’t know what I do to put men off. I also wish girls would as me out to see if it would be better. I can’t tell who is gay/bi so it’s hard to ask the women out.☹️