My daughter died from a drug overdose April 20 this year. She and Jim, her father hadn’t spoken in years. He was and still is cold to the fact saying his daughter died when she brought her thug boyfriend over to beat him. That really happened, he hurt Jim very bad while our daughter kept saying “kill the son of a b****.” Jim went into the hospital for three weeks and was off work for four months. On the flip side, Jim stabbed the guy, they ran and he refused treatment and died a month later from infection. I still talked to our daughter over the last few years. We were as close as we could be and she has two biracial kids. I want them, I want to raise them but Jim said theyre6not coming I to his house. Jim is the breadwinner here and if I divorce him I won’t have the means to raise them. I don’t knkw the answer but I’m dying inside.