To: It’s not that I don’t love my husband because clearly I do
Me: Sad to say, but not all relationships make it and many do not.
I would say you have 2 choices – you can leave things the way they are and do nothing to upset things, or you can ask him directly if he still loves you and why he does not show you any love in return and talk it out with him, because we are all essentially lazy and it is easy to get into a rut, without realizing that our relationship could be at risk, for having done so.
If your husband has fallen out of love with you, find out why and if you want to fix things so that your relationship is OK and ongoing again.
If however, you feel there is no point in staying in it or around him, move on and start over and try again, because we only have this one life and it is soon over and if you don’t get the fulfillment you want out of your life, then it is up to you to make that change, for yourself and nobody else.
R