Which is why IF you get married, just prenup, you get paternity test immediately if any kids are born.

Especially if you marry a known s***. Make it legal that a paternity test is required before you take the plunge, or that’s it.

Let people raise their own kids. If the guy is a deadbeat loser, well them’s the breaks and you dump her. It’s pretty simple. If she is not willing for a paternity test, you go out for a pack of smokes and don’t come back.