To: while married i gave birth to another mans baby ..DH doesn’t know it’s not his
Me: don’t ever tell him. He is providing support and love for the kid, thinking it is his and what the ear does not hear, the mind does not know.
If he is so gullible, if you want another kid, the door is open enough for you to have another one with someone else, just make sure the skin color of your outside marriage, partner is the same color as your own.
If you are a white person, for example and you fucked a black guy, it would be practically impossible to convince your husband a black kid was his!!
At days end, all kids are innocent and pure and must not be the objerct of anybody’s hate, after all, what the parents of a kid do, has nothing to do with the kid itself, it did not f*** either of you and was born by mistake, sort of thing.
A point lost on my parents about me, as it happened – mixed religions – between them, did that for me.
R