Look, the fact is if this person has never expressed or shown a shred of romantic interest, if you “fell” for them, that’s not their fault. Do you even really know him? You know all people have their own s*** going on that you have no idea about right?
Don’t get clingy and don’t sound alarms in all directions potentially causing him problems if the problem is you. Definitely don’t confront him on what his issues are with you. Especially if I don’t know him and he has never shown a sliver of interest in you. Getting clingy and crazy is the wrong rout le to take. Be mature and back off. Don’t honour of your way to push buttons either. If you think someone has a problem with you, and as a knee jerk reaction you feel you need to get up his a** and in his face LOOKING for a problem, there might end up actually being a problem. Give the guy his personal space. Be a mature adult and keep your distance. MAYBE he’ll come back around, maybe he won’t though. Either way, be mature about it. Don’t be a psycho. Being clingy drives people away. It’s human nature. It creates repulsion. It does in me anyway. So if I am keeping my distance, maybe you already did confront me on my distance, you already did make it worse with me. I don’t know you enough, for long enough, or care enough about you to not get more distant. That gets the red flags up. You’re already too clingy, which will cause me to distance myself more and make you think there’s something wrong with you and soon and so on.
Human nature. Don’t make it worse. Be an adult. Back off, keep your distance and your emotions in check. If you get crazy enough, eventually I’ll just tell people “look, she’s crazy…. I don’t want to be anywhere near her…” and I’ll explain that you are pulling s*** out of your a** and freaking me out. Keep her out of here.
Nobody owes you anything and people are not obligated to be on good terms with you. That’s should be natural anyway, not forced. Believe me, I’ve been on that end too. Handle it better. Try not to care so much. Move on. Keep distance.