To: I’m 16 and have s** frequently with my father behind my mother’s back.
Me: He should not be having s** with you, but he is and you enjoy it with him, so why not?
You are confused about your relationship with him and his relationship with you and your mother, you want him to be your lover and you don’t like to share and that is to be expected.
I hope he has you on the pill or he gives you the morning after pill, so you don’t get pregnant.
It is how it is. I think you should not get him to punish your mother, if she upsets you, because that is going to be even more confusing for you and you should never come between your father and your mother, in that way.
You may decide that you don’t want any more s** with your father and that is OK too.
You remind your father or how your mother was, when they were both young and he will always find s** with you heaps better than the s** he has with your mother – it is how it is.
Best thing to do is enjoy what you have together, do your s** thing for you and don’t consider him or your mother, in getting what you want out of it for you.
Half his luck, all of yours.