To: im a lesbian and had s** with a man about a year ago to prove to myself i wouldn’t enjoy it.
Me: It is natural for a female to have s** with a man, it is not normal for a female to have s** with another female, because that is what our reproductive organs are for to have m/f s** and create children and you simply can’t do that with f/f s**.
How has your v***** changed? It will look the same from the outside, no matter what you do on the inside and how can you be ashamed of that?
Perhaps you are ashamed because you want to be a Lesbian, but now you know that you enjoy m/f s** more and get off better that way instead.
You cannot judge a book by its cover – you said s** with the guy was OK, but different guys have different understandings of how to pleasure women and if you meet a really hot guy who really sends you into multiple orgasms, there won’t ever be anything better than that.
Don’t be so hard on yourself. What you do with your body is your choice and if you want only f/f relationships, don’t tell about what you did before, in just the same way that if you enjoy m/f, don’t tell about your f/f tendencies, unless you want a relationship which allows you to have both s***** opportunities = f/f & m/f – you sleep in the middle with your female partner on one side and your male partner on the other.
Sounds like heaven to me
Richard