My room mate used to take her n*** photos daily and send that to her lover.

I was shocked when i came to know about that. I told her it’s not good. Cause.. I dont know it’s the way i’m taught and brought up. A girl have some morals, right? I mean.. I dont know, may be i’m old school. She said that it was normal cause he was her lover and she loved him and will marry him no matter what. He had no job, no money.

It was unacceptable by me. Well, you may also call me a sick rural girl but i dont completely feel pre-marital s** is a right thing. Even if she was sure that she’d marry him it wasn’t acceptable for me.
She is a very good cultured girl. She cares for everyone. But this is the only thing i felt bad about her.

My best friends believed in my principles. And i couldn’t hide this from them and told it. They asked me to stay away from her. But i couldn’t do it. Because she was a very good person. And i liked her as a sister. But she never listened to me.

Later, she broke up with him. And now is engaged to another man. The worst part is, she lost her virginity with her ex just before the day of her engagement. I feel like she was purposefully cheating her fiance just for the sake of lust. He doesn’t know about all these and this is his first relationship. He’s a gentleman. I feel sorry for him. Her ex still have those n*** pics of hers with him. What if he black mails her?

If one day she loses the interest for her husband, will she go back to her ex? Or someone else? Just for some s**? I feel bad for her life. Mutilating every pure reasons. Why live like that? It’s not that situations pushed her into this but she jumped into this. She even said to me once that she give preference to money more than love.

Many may call me dumb and immature. And say, stupid principles but still.. I believe a female body is the most precious thing. And even her virginity. It’s not something you should play with. Why not save it for your beloved alone? You can feel the full love towards him by that and will never lose your interest i guess.

I pray for her mostly. I wish she have a good marital life. Safe and happy.