To: I’ve been dating a guy for two years and now I think I may be a lesbian.
Me: S*** happens. Better you find out now, than you get married to him and find out then.
Are you sure you have lesbian tendencies or is it that he does not finish you off after s**, so you get your o***** too?
Perhaps the issue is more about what he does not do for you than your s***** lust for females who do o***** you, where he cannot, because he does not know how to.
Perhaps if you explain what you want him to do to you, so you get your orgasms too, might be the way to go, until you know for sure.
You could always be Polyamorus, like s** with both male and female…..