MY in-laws dont understand me. their using my past too black mail me. if i dont bend to their will they say they will strip me of everything. i feel trapped scared and confused. i tried giving them respect they dont respect me so why should i respect them i could be the cleanest person in the world and that wouldn’t be good enough for them i could be an MIT grad and i wouldn’t have their respect i love my wife i kept a messy apartment but thats in part due to my ADHD and ASD i have trouble remembering simple tasks it s**** that they hold things they do to help us over our heads i hate them