How You Can Get Wetter During S**
5 ways to enhance your body’s natural wetness
Hakima T A N T R I K A
Hakima T A N T R I K A
Feb 28 · 4 min read
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Babe, are you struggling to get wet during i**********? You are not alone.

Many women struggle with this problem. Nearly 1 in 5 women over the age of 20 say they can’t get wet enough during s**. There are lots of reasons that these women, like myself, have experienced this. Stress, lack of foreplay, and even personal products like soaps or laundry detergents can impact vaginal wetness. And when you’re not wet enough, it can be quite uncomfortable and cause your v***** harm. Your s***** experience deserves to be pleasurable, juicy, and delicious. So let’s see how we can have a wet, slippery p****.

In this article, I’m going to share with you 5 tips that will help to increase your wetness. I have learned more about my body and my turn ons by following these tips myself. I also experienced an increase in my p****’s wetness during play.

From time to time I find I’m still not wet enough and it’s okay! When that happens, I usually use tip #5 to overcome my dryness. Alternatively, I just have a break from s***** i********** and enjoy other forms of non-penetrative play.
#1: Know what makes you feel good

Your p**** needs warming up to get wet. For that, you need to know what stimulates your body. How do you like to be touched? Where are the sensitive spots on your body? There is an easy way to find out: have a self-pleasure ritual.

Self-pleasure is another word for m***********. So, a Self-pleasure ritual is both a moment you dedicate and a setting you create for yourself to practice m***********. It’s a sacred space for you and your body. During a self-pleasure ritual, you make time to be present with your sensations, and explore your p****.

Start by getting comfortable so you can relax your body completely. Massage your inner thighs, your breasts, and the area around your womb with light and gentle strokes. Tune in to the sensations that feel good and turn you on. Your p**** will tell you what she wants. Grind, move your hips, and shake your a**.

Whether you use a s** toy like a v******* or d****, it’s important to make sure you have warmed yourself up before jumping into penetrative m*********** or clitorial stimulation.

Feel free to include some of the following into your self-pleasure ritual:

A bubble bath with scents that arouse your senses;
Your favourite lingerie;
Music that makes you feel s***.

When you explore your body, do not shame yourself for how much or how little you get wet. Trust that your body is reacting in a way that is good for you.
#2: Take control of your body and mind

When we feel tense or a bit disconnected from the s***** experience, it’s harder for our p**** to get wet. Mental judgments and insecurities may come up, and that’s normal. But you have the power over your thoughts and you can turn them off by simply tricking the mind. This doesn’t mean faking being turned on. It means taking responsibility for your own arousal.

These is how you can trick your mind into being turned on:

Touch your own skin in gentle ways that make you feel excited and electric;
Breathe into the places of your body that feel tense. Allow yourself to release that tension;
Grind your hips and moan into the sensations;
Accept whatever feelings and sensations arise.

You will be amazed at how much wetter you can get by just surrendering to the experience, without judgement.
#3: Explore the A-spot

Everybody has heard about the G*****. But there’s another highly sensitive spot that lies deeper, about 4–6 inches inside your p****. It’s called the A-spot.

Massaging the A-spot gently at the beginning of foreplay can increase your p****’s wetness and also help make penetration much more pleasurable. Stimulate your A-spot for at least 10 minutes.

To find it, insert a finger — either yours or your lovers — into your v***** and curl upwards towards your navel. Find the G***** first, and then go slightly further in. You may need a s** toy to reach it if a finger isn’t quite long enough.
#4: Adapt to your cycle

Women’s natural lubrication changes throughout our menstrual cycle. During ovulation, the v***** produces more fluid from the cervix. This is to assist the sperm in travelling to the egg, increasing the chances of pregnancy. Then during menstruation there is more dryness in the v*****. After bleeding is complete, the v***** produces more fluid again.

So you might want to check where you are in your cycle if you’re not feeling wet enough and adjust when you’re having s** based on your cycle.
#5: Use lube

Becoming a master of your wetness and self lubrication takes some time. In the meanwhile, using lubricants can be very helpful. There are many safe and wonderful lubes on the market. You just have to find what works best for your body.

There are three types of lubricants:

Water-based;
Silicone-based;
Oil-based.

Water based lubes may need to be reapplied during s** as they dry out more quickly. Silicone and oil-based lubes are better for longer play sessions. Note that oil-based lubes do not mix with latex so don’t use them with latex condoms.There is no shame in using lube. It’s actually super convenient.

Practicing these tips regularly will help increase the wetness you experience. They will also equip you in educating your lover so that his actions will turn you on even more.
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Me: I recommend that women put a dab of Vaseline (Petroleum Jelly) on their v***** and in their hole, or b** as the case might be. It is an excellent lubricant and heals any tears which might occur from the inside. If you don’t tell, he won’t know, so win win.