To: I was little around 5 and my friend show me what she found on her siblings phone
Me: Life is about making mistakes and learning better ways to do things.
Whatever you did when you were 5 has no bearing on what you have done since and that episode was a way of you learning more about your body and what felt nice.
You should not punish yourself for it, what is past, is past and nothing will ever change what is past, you can only move forwards and find different ways to do things and you must leave memories from the past, where they belong, in the past.
I doubt whether the person who licked you, will remember, but even if they do, so what – it was between you and her – and again, what is past is past, so don’t go there and forget it.
Everyone you know, including myself, has made mistakes in our past that we regret and wish we could have changed (skeletons in our cupboard), but it is how it is and that’s life.
Your life is precious, you won the lottery of life and got to be born and have the life you have now, so put your past behind you and do the best you can for yourself in future, because that is all that matters and that is how it should always be, for you.
I have your back and I am here for you, whenever you need me.
Richard.
