To: Staying married for the kids is so freaking hard.
Me: If your marriage is on the rocks, then nothing is going to change and everything will only get worse.
Perhaps the time has come to move out or move on without your partner. If you are a female, keep the kids with you. If you are a guy, find another female to move in with and have a new relationship with, if you feel so inclined, or stay single and let events decide if you get involved again.
S*** happens, that is life. Every new journey begins with the first step, perhaps it is time for you to make your next step.
Good Luck.
