Denial?
You can’t turn a negative into a positive, you can choose to overlook the negative and get past it if they deserve to have it over looked.
You know… Say you look at the person you are in a relationship with, it feels like something, you look at this person and they are holding a gun and you say “If you f****** shoot me with that gun, and you f*** off…. you are not ever coming back here again…. I swear to f***…”
And they smile, shrug, shoot you, s*** on you, kick you in the face, laugh one more time, and then they leave… only to come back several time with frieds to piss on your head…
First of all, you can’t make that positive. You can choose to over look it (???) I would think that overlooking something like tha for a reason like for example you are lonely or pathetic, whatever, is like letting the person get away with all that, basically doing whatever they want and getting what they want in the end. Thats called letting someone or people walk all over you.
