To: Im 45 married female. Been taught it was taboo to touch myself.
Me: Get a mirror and see where your wee comes from and what your c*** looks like (where your husband puts his p****) and where everything is located. Your wee comes from a nub, just inside your v***** at the top, so apply lubricant to it (Petroleum Jelly or Vaseline is the best choice) and rub it vigorously, while you think of s*** thoughts and you will c** multiple times.
Buy a hard plastic v******* online, one that takes 2 x “C” sized batteries.
Now apply Vaseline to your inner c*** lips, the ones inside the front opening of your c*** and gently massage your lips out, stretching them out as far as you can comfortably manage.
Put your v******* on the side of one (going as fast as it will go – the top round switch makes it go fater or slower) c*** lip and your finger on the other side, so that your c*** lip is between your finger and the v******* and feel for the engorged vein in the top of the lip you are vibrating and when you find it, hold your finger on that vein for as long as possible and you will have rolling orgasms, one after the other and over 3 hours or so, you can have in the region of 100 orgasms, however you might scream or groan uncontrollably, so perhaps have some loud music playing in the background, or put a pillow over your mouth or make sure the windows of your home are closed.
When a lip gets a bit sore, there is another vein lower down in your lip and of course there is always the lip on the other side, which you have not vibrated, yet.
Move the v******* up to under your t**, with some more Vaseline for lubrication and slowly feel around the underneath of your t**, where your t** meets your chest, massaging the nerve endings under there and as you o*****, move your free hand up to your n***** and tweak it or pinch it, to heighten your sensitivity, as you c**. You can run a hand lightly over your body to find sensitive areas that help and prolong your orgasms, as you c**.
When you put your finger in your c***, you will feel a V shaped ridge in the upper, inner roof of your c*** and if you rub a finger forwards and backwards there, that is where you G.Spot is.
You will find a soft pad, on the lower side of your c***, just inside the entranceway and if you lightly massage that, you will o***** frequently and if you can reach right through to the inside of your c***, you will feel another soft pad there, which if you massage that, will get you orgasming too.
Use a pillow to raise your bottom, to give you easier access to your c*** and open your legs wide, to heighten your s***** appetite. Put a thick towel under your bottom, so that any juices which flow down go on the towel and not your bed sheets or into the mattress, staining it and it is a lot easier to wash a towel, than it is sheets.
If you have internet access and Google, question there, the s** you want to see and follow the links to the videos which you can watch for free to heighten your s***** awakenings, however, download a copy of Glary’s Utilities (free) or better yet a pirated one, which gives you a full working program and use it to clean your computer after each use, so you don’t leave anything on it, which husband can find later and while you are at it, download WiseCare365 and install and use that too, to really clear out your internet searching strings, for good. You can always delete the programs from your hard drive after each use and put them back on, for when you do your s** videos or pictures search again, to remain undetected.
Practice f****** your c***, by relaxing your c*** muscles and using lots of Vaseline as you might find that more fun than just f******** yourself, however take off all rings, bracelets and watches, from the fingers and arm you are going to use……. And enjoy.
Your c*** will return to its usual size and when hubby fucks you again, he won’t notice any difference.
Always have a shower after sexing yourself, because a musty smell will remain and you don’t want to give the game away to hubby and open your bedroom windows, to air the room, for the same reasons.
It is your body. If hubby does not satisfy you, then you really need to do that for yourself and of course, don’t tell anyone what you do to satisfy yourself, for the obvious reasons!!
Good Luck, Best Wishes
R