To: New Year’s Eve my parents had gone to one of my aunt and uncles for the evening.
Me: Sorry, but you are pregnant and you will start to “show” soon, so you will have to tell your parents and they will probably tell his parents that you are pregnant and will be bearing his kid and both sets of parents will decide what they are going to do about your kid and you.
First question is, do you want to keep it?
The problem he has is that he is at college and not employed and not earning any income, so he can’t support you, whatever your parents decide is the best thing for you.
The second problem is you are a minor until you turn 18 and the Law says that you do not have the maturity to know right from wrong and you could not consent to s**, before you turn 18, so it could be easily argued that he seduced you by getting you drunk and took advantage of you when you could not resist, because you were drunk and you did not know what he was doing when he came in you, because you have never had s** before and you were a virgin, up to that point in time, so not being able to legally consent – he raped you – and he is in serious s*** if the police find out what he did but you will be protected by the Law because of your age and being a minor – and I don’t know if his f****** you might come under i***** as well – which is an even greater punishment and certainly not anything anyone would want to have to own up to.
Because he is 19 and you are 14, he became an adult when he turned 18 and as such, was an adult when he fucked you (with an adults responsibilities to the care of a child, which you are) and he made you pregnant while you were 14 and a minor and could not consent by Law.
Keep and print out, a copy of your post and present it to your parents and explain that you think you are pregnant and why and show your copy of your post to your parents and take whatever responsibility is laid on your shoulders by them, as a matter of course.
While you are at it, print out a copy of this, my reply to you and also give this to your parents as well, as they may not be familiar with the Law and this will give them some guidance, in whatever decisions they make.
Finally, you did nothing wrong (by Law) but you will bear the consequences of that s***** activity, when you have the kid, if you decide to keep it, however 14 is really too young to have a kid, because you don’t have the maturity to bring it up, or the financial means to support yourself or your kid, so abortion might be the best way to go, unless your parents are fully s