To: Okay, so I have been in a long term relationship for the last 6 and a half years.
Me: If your present partner is still interested in a 3 some and you might mention the relationship you had with your ex, so that it does not come as a nasty surprise to her, because women being women, this will be the first thing out from your ex – and women are very protective of their s***** partner, especially from ex’s.
Probably your current was thinking of another female without any attachments to either of you, perhaps you should ask your current one, to find someone suitable and then the f*** on the side you had with your ex, won’t come out and become an issue with your current one – because the first thing she will think is that you have been cheating with your ex, while you have been f****** her and once the seed is sown, it does not go away, but becomes an issue, you should have left in the cupboard, with the door locked with a huge padlock.
Best thing – if you f*** your ex, keep it far away from your relationship with your current, so that their paths don’t cross, sort of thing, is my advice!!