To: To: you are bisexual Me/OP: agreed, no argument there.
Me: Play along. Tell them what they want to hear. Pretend to take counseling as if it is a cure. Avoid any electric shock treatment through the head, which might be offered, because that is barbaric and unnecessary, keep it as simple as you can about the other side of you and limit what you admit to, to the least possible, to minimize what you admit to, or your feelings in that area.
Try to remember what you said so you don’t contradict yourself and remember this is your life and win, lose or draw, you are how you were created and nobody has a right to change that.
At days end, you can always front up to her parents and tell them their daughter has a great husband in you and if they want to tell her, the things which were private to you, then bring it on and tell her and have her hate you both forever, because they destroyed her marriage to you, by revealing something about you, they had no right to know and that you will also begin legal proceedings against them, for invasion of privacy and they can expect harsh retribution form the Law, things being the way they are now – whether you do or not – bluff is a positive way our of your situation, but not during counseling, when you can have it out with them and turn the tables on them, later on.
Ultimately, it does not matter if they like you or not, but stopping them from telling your daughter is the priority and there is nothing to suggest they might not tell her, even after you have been “treated”, so you really need to put the fear of God into them and by fronting them and telling them afterwards to “bring it on”, in the hope that they will be too scared to do anything and too scared of you to f*** up their lives for them, with their daughter as well as you.
Play their love of their daughter against them, by suggesting they will turn her against them, by telling her about your s***** preferences, which destroys your marriage to her.
You get my drift?
Now I don’t know you from Boo, but it seems to me as if your wife is the earner and you are at home as the Housewife, almost as if you have a role reversal and if so, she probably suspects your s***** differences, but does not need to know about them, while the roles you both play, work so well for both of you.
While I don’t have your s***** leanings, I am here for you, I have your back and I am only a text away, should you ever need my support – 2 heads are better than one, sort of thing.
Good Luck, Best Wishes, Don’t let the Buggers get you down!!
R