To: I was molested by a classmate 4 years ago and i still haven’t told my parents.
Me: 4 years ago is too long. You said nothing when you might have done and now you have to live with whatever he did to you.
Molesting is no big thing, but if he fucked you, that is something else again.
Face reality, you did nothing, he got away with it and you have to move on with your life and put the past behind you, where it should be left now.
That your friends talk with him, is no business of yours – if he molests any of them, like he did with you, then that is tough on them and their problem to resolve, not yours – you had your chance and you blew it.
Start thinking forward, what today and tomorrow will bring and leave the past where it deserves to be in your history, where nothing can be changed now.
