To: Just turned 14 . Everyone told me my first time being penetrated would hurt .
Me: Sometimes it hurts when you get penetrated, depending on if your hymen is still intact. Sometimes sport, or physical exercise, can cause the hymen to break and in your case, perhaps that was the case.
However, you really need to be on the pill or take some sort of contraceptive, because the last thing you want to do is get pregnant and every time you have s**, potentially that could happen to you and you will know when that happens, when you miss your period.
Should that occur, you need to have decided how you will tell your parents and he his and whatever you do next, but I’m guessing neither of yours, or his, parents would want you pregnant before you get married, or before he can support you and the baby financially, so that does not fall on your parents to pay for, to support and house you and the baby after your pregnancy and if he won’t marry you or support you, after you get pregnant, then that is going to make future relationships rather difficult, if nobody else wants to support you and your baby, when you are old enough to marry, if this relationship, does not work out.
Be careful, think it through, hope you got away with it this time – as you are a minor, until you turn 18 in many cultures, this could be considered to be r***, by him, even if you consented, because the Law says you don’t have the understanding or maturity to consent, before you turn 18, so s**, especially unprotected s**, means taking the pill to avoid getting pregnant, as a priority, you must get on immediately, however you go about doing that!!