To: I’m 10 weeks pregnant and my husband won’t stop yelling at me.
Me: I don’t know you or your culture, but I would say your husband is becoming very controlling and he has issues he needs to address and get out and ideally should have counseling with a psych or marriage counselor, because there is nothing you can say, which is going to make him change.
I am concerned that his outbursts might lead to violence and if so, do you have parents you could move in with, should it become necessary to leave that relationship and him, for your own safety and for that of your, as yet, unborn child?
Do you have a brother or father, who could get him to quieten down and maybe have a talk with him to find out what is wrong?
R