To: Becoming obsessed with a young family member and I’m afraid ill do something stupid
Me: Find out what the punishments are, if you get found out and does this young family member respond to you, in the same way?
If both answers are totally threatening to you and your lifestyle, reason enough to back off and stop obsessing about this person.
The problem is that if you do get involved, sooner or later, you will get found out and often the punishment afterwards, was not worth the obsession, in the first place, after you have destroyed your life and any future happiness you might have had.
When your “crime” is common knowledge in the community where you live, you become the object of all of the hate that everyone delivers on you and it is probably something you cannot escape, or them. Shudder.
