My best friend took me for granted and made me the bad guy in the end.
So me and her meet nearly 6 years ago. We are totally different from each other. She is super sweet and friendly. Tall , blue eyes dark long hair . While I am more reserved and a bit cold but not in a mean way. I’m short ,brown hair brown eyes and glasses. We were both know in school because of our “looks” I was never really confident but most of my friends say I’m cute.The entire school would talk about what a weird duo we were. During these years I have always been her number one moral support. I was there when she fainted from stress,during family and relationship problems helping her with her grades and with her newly started modeling career. During those times I was suicidal and I would try to talk with her but she was never really there for me , it looked like she didn’t have the nerve to deal with me. While I would stay until 4am to support her and be there for her. She would mention to kill herself the same way I tried . So I felt guilty and helped her in every way possible to make the situation better. She became obsessed with one of her ex a few months ago and she wanted me to report her everything I knew about him. He and I had known each other since 5th grade . I had realized that she would text me only when she wanted to do something for her. So I tried to change the subject. He invited me to his birthday and I found out that she had lied about him being controlling while she was the controlling one . He showed me their chats and I was shocked. I apologized to him if I had leashed out on him because of her lies. When I went home after his Bday she asked me to report her EVERYTHING and EVERYONE who was there. But I cut it short with saying nothing much happened. She got super mad and told me to never talk to her again. 3 weeks go by and I got new she is moving in another state . So I texted her goodbye and told her encouraging things . She asked me to meet at her shop with our mothers since they were friends too. So we went there and we was acting cold and cocky. When our mothers weren’t present anymore her whole behavior changed. She became snarky and told me I had not done her some favor so I owned her . She wanted me to send her ex the gift that she had made especially for him. It was a picture of them with a snarky quote. I refused and she got mad again. She is now in another state we don’t talk anymore I tried to end our friendship in a neutral manner but she doesn’t like that . She still posts pictures with captions about fake friends and how people need to apologize to her . She texted my other friend saying how she is the victim in this situation and how she never realized how fake people around her were and how I’ll never find love because I am a very cold and emotionless person.(I’ve never been in a relationship during all these years because I didn’t want to joke around and be heartbroken in the end I have always wanted smth serious )
I had always turned a blind eye on her behavior because of how emotionally fragile she was but I had enough. When I think about it there were a lot of situations that described how toxic she was .
Honestly I’m in a better mental and emotional state than I was and I don’t have regrets.I started university in Nov 2020 with a better mindset