Ugly guys may still get girls, but those relationships are largely transactional in nature and the guy usually ends up very unhappy in the long run. When it comes to actual love and romance, a man’s looks DO matter. Be the guy she actively WANTS to f***, not the one she’s merely “willing” to (IF you jump through enough hoops). The one whose settling for you will be demanding and high-maintenance, and she will never truly respect you no matter how hard you try to please her. Once she has the nice house and 2 kids she wanted, the s** stops and you find out how “attracted” to you she REALLY was all along! A woman whose interest in you is legitimate will NOT be difficult to please. She will NOT expect expensive dates/gifts and treat you like an ATM. She will NOT nag you constantly or treat you disrespectfully. She will NOT treat s** like a damn chore or expect something in return for it. If the women you date consistently behave like bitchy prostitutes, it’s because they only find you “attractive” in a socioeconomic sense. The only “10s” willing to date a “4” are settlers and gold diggers.