To: God knew what he was doing when he gave me this immensely negative mindset towards marriage
Me: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and there is someone for everyone.
I’m a guy and I was born with a pot belly, sloping shoulders and I look like a skinny walking question mark, but that is not the point – you know what you look like, so you accept how you turned out and you learn to be outgoing, to talk to men, to smile a lot and be interesting to talk too and then the ugliness you see in yourself, is never seen by the men who you talk to and date and it never becomes a problem at all, in your life, if you don’t let it.
I learned this the hard way and believe me, I am never lonely and I never am at a loss to not have a woman at my side, nor will I ever grow old alone and neither should you.
At days end, you are a female, you have the things which we men don’t and any man worth his salt, will be wanting to get hold of you and make magic, you just have to polish your personality and after that, everything will fall into place.
One gives you ten, you are really pretty, but you dress down and wear dull colors – better get some modern s*** clothes that draw attention to you – cost wise, go to thrift shops and buy cheap clothes off the rack – do the collars and cuffs check for wear and avoid anything which does not neatly fit your shape.
In reality, nobody needs to know where you buy your clothes and if you shop for really good brands, nobody will ever know you did not buy your clothes new.
If you have a bulky figure, go for clothing which hangs off your shoulders and up and down stripes because they give the appearance of slimming you, as does black.
Try high heeled shoes, to give emphasis to your legs, but not too high, just enough, but not too much, because you don’t want hammer toes, later in life.
I love white underwear as a man – it is a virginal thing for me and if you flash someone while you are sitting down (discreetly opening your legs) they get to see all of the way up, or if you bend over and show your breasts with a low top and upwards lifting bra, nothing raises the hair on a man’s neck, than that!!
Good Luck – I am here, if you want any advice and I have your back.