To: The funny thing about shame and depression is that with almost everyone, it is not justified. What if it is justified, though? What if you have fucked up so badly,
Me: Everyone fucks up badly numerous times in their lives, it is not just you. We learn from making mistakes and finding ways to improve so we don’t f*** up so badly the next time around and that is how we progress in life and become who we eventually want to be.
Nobody said life was ever meant to be easy and speaking for myself, it was bloody hard, but I wanted a hard life, so that it would make me who I now am and by the same token, I can take what I have learned with me, when I eventually die and leave all the worldly things behind.
Welcome to life and living from the ground up.
Life is an adventure and should be treated as such. We all have those moments you describe. The name of the game is get up, go on and don’t let the buggers get you down, or win over you.
Heroes are made, not born.