I really don’t like black guys far as romance is concerned. I don’t appreciate getting hit on by them, because they aren’t attractive to me. At this point, I won’t look their way no matter how great they are. I know all black males aren’t like this, but most of them are unemployed, doing drugs, lacking education/intellect, wearing their pants sagging, etc. Some of them just LOOK dirty and dingy. Maybe i’ts because i’m from an upper middle class family and i’m used to being around a certain class of people that my stardards may seem too high but, i absolutely will not settle for anything less.
My sister says i’m borderline racist, but for instance; when i see a group of black males being loud, with sagging pants, just loitering around in a parking lot; i lock my doors. One particular time, there was a black guy just standing around, looking suspicious as other males waited in his car. He didnt go into the store or anything; he just kept looking at the people as they passed. I was afraid to get out of my car or leave it unattended. He might have stolen it, or robbed me. I was especially afraid when two brave women went into the store and the car full of men were yelling after them like dogs. I just know they were up to something, though i can’t confirm it.
I have a preference for Caucasian and Asian males. I don’t really know what it is, but i feel safer around them. Beyond the fact that they are attractive to me, they all around seem to have theirselves together. Ambition, career goals, intelligence, proper wearing of their clothes, and majority of them know how to talk to a woman. My mother says that i’m “selling out” and my sister calls me “racist”. My mother has once even said “I see sleeping with the white man as a betrayl to the slaves. Why dont you keep dating within the race?” 1st of all, the caucasian people of today didn’t enslave anyone. Why should i blame a whole race for what their ancestors did many years ago? 2nd, why should i date within the race when most of the men are complete losers? I am not going to settle for less just to please my family. I care about their opinions of me only to a certain degree. I’m talking about dating. I have black male friends who are wonderful people and opposite of what i described in the paragraphs above. I have no problem with black people. I was just talking about the certain unsavory men, but we can include the women as well or anybody that is or acts “ghetto”.
The “ghetto” blacks give the whole race a bad representation. And frankly; there are too many of them. They just don’t know how to act. And they wonder why people may seem standoff-ish towards them or want to disassociate themselves. Somewhat a different topic, but i must address this. WHY do black people get mad when other people say the “N ” word when we use it among ourselves?! It has to be the dumbest thing in the world. Now, i have never used/ said the “N ” word because it an offensive term. I just don’t get it.
Well, there it is. I am an african american highschool senior and these are my thoughts. Some may agree and many will disagree, I don’t care. Mom, if you ever read this; please realise how ridiculous you sound.
