To: Im inlove with a 14 yr old guy and im a 20yr old female…i know ..disgusting right?
Me: NO!! You have just found the right guy for you and because he is “underage” you can’t progress with your friendship with him, until he is old enough to consent for something more.
Lots of young girls marry much older men, once they are considered adult and that is OK, your fella just has not got there yet.
You can start to teach him positive outcomes and ways to better himself and the things you like and the things he likes and let things take their course and see how things end up – if it is meant to be, it will be, if it’s not, it won’t be, but you can get the groundwork down, without crossing any lines and 6 years difference in age, is really nothing, right???
If his parents approve of you, you are well on the way to acceptance.
Good Luck and Best Wishes.