To: Hi, it’s Maya here. Let me share my thoughts with you and rant a little bit.
Me: Hi Maya. I suggested in a reply, above, that you look outside your country and your culture to find a man online who is financially secure, has a good job and his own home, to meet with and eventually move to the country of his residence, to marry him and start over fresh somewhere else.
However, when a guy asks if you are a virgin, ask him if he is a virgin too and if he says he is not, then ask him how her can have s** with women and not be a virgin and expect the same from you, after all, you don’t know what s***** diseases he might have and if you have to take him at face value, the least he can do is take you at face value too.
What is good for the Goose is good for the Gander, sort of thing.
I understand in some cultures, after s**, the bed linen is displayed for all to see – the blood from a virgin’s c*** after that first s**.
Blood from a virgin is just the same color as blood from your monthly period, so you could always save some in a bottle and put it on the bed sheets after your first f*** and who will know if you were a virgin or not?
Most guys f*** a female and then they roll over and go to sleep, which would be a good time to slip out of bed, get your bottle of blood and spread some of it where you have been laying and let nature take its course afterwards (cleaning up thoroughly afterwards so there is no trace of your deception left anywhere).
Not all girls have a Hymen before s** – strenuous exercise and using Tampons instead of a pad, could easily tear the Hymen and then again, I don’t know if he is expected to look at it, before he decides if you are a virgin or not, or if it is the question of if you have had s** with anyone else or not then it is easy enough to say he will be your first, if that is all you say and who is to know any better, than you.
People lie all of the time. It is second nature to lie, to avoid circumstances which deliver punishment in whatever form that might take, so fibbing about your s***** experiences prior to, with this man, should not represent much of a problem, after all, from the way you describe your encounter, this man was not a s***** athlete and you are probably none the wiser other than where his p**** went and that’s it.
There can be a lot more to s** than that, if your culture has not circumcised you and you don’t feel any s***** feelings because of that, down there. (shudder if you were circumcised)
