I’ve been on both sides and can say with confidence:

Men do like skinny women. When they say they want something to grab onto they mean a perky b*** or b****. Just ample b*** or b**** which is definitely not achievable by everyone. Some people are naturally flat assed and breasted. In my case I’m lucky to at least have an a** and decent sized chest.

Finally got a compliment from my man after having LOST weight. Men notice and they care. Even if you aren’t fat they notice and care when you gain and it bothers them. They DO like skinny even if they say they don’t and make jokes for you to eat more. You are treated better when you are thin.

Need more proof? Just look at the models, actresses, and p*** stars they like. I promise you the only thing fat on those things known is their a** and t***. Don’t believe their “I don’t like skinny” bs they don’t know what they really like or they’re just saying what they think they’re supposed to say. Because they’re desperate for puss and companionship but make no mistake your fatass would be dropped if a slim bombshell aggressively wanted him. And no your compassion and intelligence won’t help you keep him. Sorry to say men are visual to the extreme and above all you’d looks matter. Even when you’re old you better be a good looking grandma because they will always be looking to upgrade to whatever the best they can get is. You’re not special.

Stay thin and you’ll win. Get fat and you’ll be replaced just like that. This is the dark reality nobody is supposed to say. There’s a version of this on the flip side for men but I’ll let the guys take care of that.