To: I love men. And they love me. I don’t have issues with the opposite s** like you people.
Me: I’m a male and I feel about most women the way you do about most men, however, the biggest issue with all of these revelations is that none of us are young for long, we start to lose our looks around 25 and after 45, what you don’t use you lose and when you fall over you don’t bounce back up again and it just bloody well hurts.
But the biggest issue is that we need to find that one person, who we are prepared to spend the rest of our lives with and although that rarely happens in relationships, we need the experiences of relationships to grind the rough edges off and make each of us more comfortable with each other and anyone else we come into contact with.
The endgame is that we really don’t want to spend our retirement years alone and lonely, as many do, but to have the skills and purpose to never be alone and when we are, the moral determination to find a suitable replacement and carry on our lives with that person, of whatever s**, until we die.
I am on female Companion “number 3”, so far and I will replace this one with another, if she, like the others, falls by the wayside – might I live long and enjoy my life now, as much as I do.
I thank goodness for my life and how wonderful I have made it, as you should yours.
Don’t look at the short term view, but the longer term view.
Like Mother like Daughter, like Father like Son.
If you are a female and you don’t like his Dad, that is what he will be like when he gets older, sort of thing.
Better check and make sure that said parent is not a Step, as happened with my last wife, discovered it after we were married – what a B**** she later turned out to be – just like she described her real mum, who deserted her father who brought up their kids, as she later did to me.
Don’t worry about the future and put your past to rest, it is like a history lesson, it has passed and you can’t change anything, only learn from your mistakes, as you live your life.
The only time that matters is the here and now, so live each minute as if it is your last and make the most of your life as you live it and never, ever, sit on the fence, but always make a decision, it does not matter if it later turns out to be a good one or a bad one and this way, you drive lots of luck to you and things always turn out for the best sooner or later.
R