To: I’m sick of my wife complaining.
Me: Maybe, if you told her what yu wrote here, she might get her a** into gear and try and help you instead of sitting around whining.
By the same token, she relies on you totally to provide for her comforts, so stop providing anything for her, which she does not get herself and see what happens then.
At days end, what have you got to lose, that you have from her now – well, nothing, it seems to me – so you should be in the drivers seat, to move on, give her the boot, or get her to start holding up her end of your relationship.
