To: Over the past 2 weeks, I’ve been becoming more and more attracted to one of my staff members
Me: You have developed a crush on him. I have that power with some women and I can tell when they refuse to look me in the eyes and blush.
You wet yourself, you shake and shudder, you blush and you probably can’t look him in the eyes, but look at an ear, or at his neck, you might even stutter when you talk to him and you feel like this is simply not you, yet you cannot do anything to control your physical feelings.
Truth of the matter is you think he is the most wonderful person you have ever seen, you want him to talk to you, but you don’t know how to respond to him and you can’t control your body, or what it is doing, uncontrollably, when he is nearby to you.
What is to be done? Well, you have 2 choices, put as much distance between you and him as you can or perhaps leave that job and go and get a job somewhere else, but if neither of those things are viable options, then you are going to have to front him and “suggest” you get together after work for a chat and see what happens.
Alternatively, you could print out this reply and give him a copy and explain that this is what is happening to you whenever he is around you and you can’t help the chemistry which is doing this to you and can he help you with it, irrespective of which way that goes – s** or not or ?
I would say he is well aware of how you are responding to him and he enjoys how he is physically affecting you – what man would not.
I have come across 3 or 4 women who had this response to me. One was unable to resist me and with that woman (Cathy) I had the best s** ever, bar none. The other 2 women knew what was happening between us and were able to resist me, although I did not want that, of course.
As you probably have gathered, I am a male.