To: Men seeking marriage or a relationship NEED to screen out the settlers and gold diggers.
Me: Agreed. Don’t advertise how much money or assets you have got, try to present yourself as poor and dress down so that you don’t look flashy or available, with expensive jewellery and all. Drive an old bomb (keep the flashy one hidden). If she would not be seen dead in it, you have a gold digger right there. If you want to move someone into your home with you, charge him or her rent – it can be as little as $5 week plus expenses – say $50 weekly all up, or more, as your circumstances might dictate, but it works like this: You are renting a room to whoever, in your home (with a signed agreement) and they are living with you as your lodger and paying you the weekly rent, as agreed – don’t ever let them contribute to whatever you buy, nor pay for anything for them, which indicates that your “relationship” is something more – then when they move out, they can’t fleece you, because they are your tenant and are not entitled to any part of your assets.
I have been doing this tactic for the past 9 years and 2 “tenants” later, it works really well – present female, she has her own bedroom as I have the en-suite – been with me for 6 years so far, of absolute bliss.
When I was looking for a female companion, I took her out in my little old bomb, no decent gold digger would be seen dead in. I took them to The Dome, or a place where I could shout them a meal and watched to see if they focused on me, had table manners and were interesting to talk to and when we left, I opened the passenger door and got them seated in my car, then walked around and checked to see if they opened the drivers door lock, so I did not have to use my drivers door key.
Failure to do any of my above tests correctly, was instant refusal for me to commit any further and on to the next one.
I am inheritance “rich”.
Above female of 6 years now, passed with flying colors and I asked her to move in as my tenant within 2 days, I was that sure – 6 years ago now.