My uncle has always been coddled to the point he never had to take responsibility for any of his problems. He lost his house several times due to a nasty drug habit. We helped him clean the drug infested house to save what we could so he could move. He ended up living with his stepdaughter and we aren’t sure of the full reason or story, but he ran away from her house. My grandma is to the point she can not be as independent as she would like to be. Now she has to take care of her grown son who doesn’t deal with the consequences of his own actions. My uncle piles piss soaked clothes into the laundry room, doesn’t wash them. He doesn’t help out around the house with little things. He doesn’t help pay bills or groceries. We can not afford to take care of him and he does not have enough money to be placed in a home like he needs to be. I do feel bad for him because he’s older and doesn’t fully grasp the concept of how none of this is okay anymore but it’s pathetic in a way to me. On the other hand it makes me so mad I can hardly stay in the same room as him. He’s a grown man who chose to make bad choices left and right but expects everyone else to clean up the aftermath when it catches up to him. He can’t stay here and he refuses to understand that. In a way I do feel bad for him and his situation but at the same time get the f****** hell out of this house and learn how to deal with the consequences of your actions. Grow up. Just f****** grow up.