To the confession referring to the blonde secretary 30 minutes or so ago
I love you and your honesty and I only urge you to think about your marriage, how happy are you? If you seriously think about it – without your d*** in the picture – what does it mean? Invite her for a discreet lunch. Who is she? Do you feel attracted toward her spiritually and mentally, as well as physically? Temptation is a normal part of life. It’s okay to think about her. What’s not okay is deceit – both to your significant partner and to yourself. Maybe your marriage gives you a kind of happiness you couldn’t achieve elsewhere. You are a good person for not acting on your lustful urges (for fourteen years! A bottle of champagne for that man! Many men would have fallen before you. You stand tall above them). In any case, enjoy the view. And don’t let your wife know! She may love you more than you think 😏
