To: I hate how women are expected to do it all.
Me: It is a cultural thing, reinforced by you letting him get away with it and you being his slave, to the extent you contribute everything and he contributes nothing.
If you are the one bringing in the income and he is the one who does not work, boot him out, change the locks so he can’t get in again and next time around, set the conditions you expect in the relationship, where he does 50% of everything that he needs to contribute to your arrangement and you do the other 50%, otherwise remain single and have s** when you want the feelings of love and affection, but only on your own terms and when you want it and not the other way around and you don’t have to rely on one male for that, but as many as you want, so you get a much more enjoyable time together, in short bursts, as it were.
Don’t make the mistake of falling for just one guy ever again, otherwise you could find yourself back where you are now, because opposites attract and your opposite seems to be “him” the very thing you want to get away from now – right?
